When i was single, there was a young lady in our youth and single fellowship who always frowned her face as if she was quarrelling with everybody! I wanted to approach her for a relationship then because of her commitment to church but any time I looked at her unattractive face I became scared. I had to give up!
Is it possible to connect men with such bitter and wary face? Not at all. You can not attract a real man into your life as a lady with fearful look, as if you are a soldier going for a world war!
Never present an unattractive personality to the public by appearing difficult so that people would fear or respect you, it is not good for you my dear!
When you frown, squeeze your face, you will look scary, and unattractive, you chase people away from you because of your look! You’ll appear annoying, disgusting, unpleasant and undesirable!
Do you know it only takes seventeen muscles to smile, but forty-three to frown? In other words, we work a whole lot harder looking sour than looking happy. just check out the difference…
To connect the right responsible man for a serious relationship, you must learn to be cheerful always, even in those moments when everything seems to be going wrong for you!
You don’t know when you will meet that man God has destined for you, it might be that moments of trials when everything seem to be going wrong for you that you will come across him!
But if you decide to frown and embitter your face, the good man may pass by your side and will not be touched emotionally to talk with you due to your scary and wary look!
You may think you cannot do anything about the way you look, but I promise you can. I must confess I was a person that rarely smiled, I always felt depressed, saddened, ashamed of myself because my life was messed up to the point where I will wake up in the night and all I will do is just cry and ask God when I will come out of the mess I have found myself. Yes, I have been there. I had lost all my hope, I kept a negative attitude, never felt good enough and it always showed on my face and the way I carried myself.
Then, God encouraged me via His Word that His plan for me is great and i have so much to offer my world!
From then on I started smiling, talking positive over myself, reminding myself daily – That I am loved, worthy and now I smile a lot!! Today, it is a testimony. God has used me to transform the lives of thousands of people both locally and internationally
Don’t present yourself as one who is an embodiment of bitterness, one who is egoistic, pompous, arrogant, or a sadist!
Smile is a form of invitation to friendship, when you smile you invite people around you for closeness; it is a sign of acceptance, love and homeliness!
Make yourself happy in any situation you find yourself. Put on smiley look, it attracts members of the opposite sex a lot. You make other feel approved and accepted when you smile at them.
With your dazzling smile you look more beautiful any time any day!
Stop frowning and keep smiling because it makes us look younger.
May the Lord give you the grace to smile
Samuel Olagbenjo
